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    Gender:
    Male
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    Jun 12, 1990 (Age: 31)
    Location:
    Venezia, Italy
    Occupation:
    journalist-analyst
    The most brutal way not to meet your own shame is to shift the focus of attention to another person, someone who is "different", "does not respond". Not only disadvantaged teenagers, as it would be natural to assume, but also adults, intellectual people from refined communities resort to ridicule, shame, bullying. The reason is the same - the horror of their own shame https://www.suissecasinoenligne.com/revues/bahigo/.

    Thus, the stages of formation of shame can be represented in time as follows:

    1. Anxiety about strangers (there is someone who is not me, and it is dangerous)

    2. Embarrassment (someone who is not me is not only dangerous but also interesting)

    3. Desire to please (interest began to outweigh embarrassment)

    4. Fear of rejection (contact with others maintains a sense of "I'm good", breaking contact - "I'm bad")

    5. Social shame ("What will people think of me?")

    6. Existential shame ("how far am I from my ideals?")

    7. Fear of shame and its consequences (ignoring one's own feelings or avoiding situations that promise to meet one's own shame, silent or open shame of others)